Love May Be in the Cards - But That Doesn't Make the Journey of the Heart Easy at Work (and beware of being an office spouse)



Typically the majority of tarot readings are about intimate relationships. More of them focus on romances in the workplace. With longer hours mandated to be put in, the office is where it is increasingly probable Cupid will shoot his arrow. Also more employers are caving to this reality. With the exception of manager-subordinate relationships work romances usually are being allowed. But, first check the employee handbook.

However, as The Wall Street Journal documents, affairs of the  heart in the workplace are complex. 

At the very least, they can be a distraction. Not only for the lovers but also for others at work. There is the issue of the office-wide gossip about the affair, which sucks time away from tasks. There is also the tension generated by the couple when there are problems. Co-workers can wind up walking on eggshells.

More serious is the possibility of legal action for alleged sexual misconduct. 

Long term can be the horror of having to go into work every day and encounter a former lover post-breakup. 

There are also wrinkles on what is standard. 

The employee having an affair with one who is married can result in pushback against the former and damage to the personal brand. Violence can also happen as when the husband or wife finds a way into the workplace and attacks. 

There is also the role of office spouse. That imposes myriad loyalty obligations. Being on the wrong side of insider politics can hold back a career. If one party makes the wrong move, both can wind up in the penalty box. In addition, it can trigger troubles back at home with the legal spouse or partner.

No surprise, as a tarot reader I urge caution in the decision-making about whether to position oneself as available for romance at work or even for being an office wife/husband. Another bit of caution is to figure out if rejection can be handled if approaching others for intimacy and receiving a "no." That rejection is bound to make it into the grapevine. 

Jane Genova * Tarot Card Reader * Intuitive Coach * Medium.

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For an appointment, please contact janegenova374@gmail.com or text/phone 203-468-8579.

 


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