The Loneliness Epidemic - Tarot Readers Often Become the Only Confidant in Adults' Lives

"An epidemic of loneliness is plaguing Americans, jeopardizing well-being, health and sense of belonging." - BBC, May 2, 2023 

There was a time clients came to me, a Tarot card reader, with a specific problem. They briefly described the situation, then listened when I provided insight and made recommendations. Now and then they would ask some questions. But, essentially I did the talking.

That was then.

In the past year the usual Tarot session more often than not has evolved into the opportunity for a human being to confide. They take over the Tarot reading with their talking. Initially I tried to stop that. After all, they are paying for me to provde a reading. Then I got it: These human beings need to talk. I have to assume they have no one else in their lives to confide in. I allow them to talk. Within about 10 mintues it is obvious to me that they have gotten some relief. There is less tension in their voice. They don't talk as rapidly. At that point I can shift into a traditionalTarot reading. 

Yes, America is a land of loneliness. This has inceased with versions of COVID, working remotely, and when back in the office where there is tremendous anxiety about employment security. 

What do I suggest to clients? 

Step Number-One: Join something, anything. It could be a religious or spiritual organization. A 12-step program such as Codependents Anonymous. A business trade association. A gym. Outdoors groups. 

Step Two (not necessarily in this order): Learn to listen. Instead of blurting out one's story (especially that of trauma) ask questions that encourage others to speak. A good listener is welcomed into any circle.

Step Three: Get out your head. No one is going there to begin a relationship with you. An exit ramp is volunteer work such as walking dogs at the shelter or driving the aging to medical appointments.

Step Four: Stay home less. You become part of society. Instead of having groceries delivered, go shop for them. 

Tarot Card Reader. Medium. Intuitive Career Coach.

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For an appointment, please contact janegenova374@gmail.com or text 203-468-8579. 


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