Haven't Become Successful Enough by Your 40th Birthday - No Worries, You Still Have 40+ Years to Make It Big
"Ready to Work Until You Die?" That is the headline in Bloomberg today.
The now-usual play-out in aging is evolving into this.
Clients for my intuitive career coaching practice parachute in on those
milestone birthdays such as 40 or 50 or even 60. Most are full of regret that
they haven't accomplished more in their careers. My usual response - and it is
amazingly effective - is that there is plenty of time in a career to build what
could be much more successful. Yes, leap into the big time.
Yesterday I bluntly put it to a 40-something who had just
entered management and assumed she should be "further ahead." What I
observed was that this was a new platform for both acquiring additional skills
and contacts and leveraging that bundle for a much better Next. The core
message was: You will probably be working 40 more years +.
Media tycoon Rupert Murdoch is 91. Obviously he continues to
have a firm grip on his New Corp empire.
Actress Betty White was employed until almost the age of
100.
Although it seems to be the end of a working life, Queen
Elizabeth has been on the job managing The Firm into her late 90s.
I am the oldest of the boomers and recently redid the menu
for my coaching services. That included adding Tarot readings, which The New York Times saluted as a great tool
for self-awareness and introspection. To give this initiative my full
attention, I shuttered my two other boutiques. Those had been in marketing
communications and legal writing. Extreme success resulting from those
initiatives has been immediate.
Among the youngest of the boomers - Paul Weiss law firm
chairperson Brad Karp - will probably land another major job and following that
other big jobs if he decides not to re-up his contract in May 2023. At age 63,
he is a relative kid among us who are determined not to retire - ever. Ahead of
him could be at least two decades of full-time work. After that, he can ease
off into contract professional opportunities.
Here in southwestern Arizona near the border of Mexico the
ethos is that of a kind of retirement community. First-hand I observe how human
beings deteriorate without work. At the very least they become less interesting
and drift into isolation. At the worst they seem to develop serious health
challenges.
Working until we drop can trigger a paradigm shift in the
concept of "aging." I don't know what will be at the other end of
that disruption. What I do know and currently experience in my coaching is that
we have stopped shooting ourselves in the foot by apologizing for "being
old." Our universal pitch is mutating into: Here's what we can do for you.
If the prospect doesn't buy what we are selling, we simply move on, as do all
effective salespeople.
Queen Elizabeth dies. Here is coverage.
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