Sex Dolls - The Perfect Non-Social Relationship

In the $6.6 billion global sex doll industry you can customize your purchase to be the perfect fit for your needs. Yes, the perfect face, the perfect body, the perfect personality traits. On Doll Forum you can research your options. And, if your notions of what's ideal change, there is a brisk sales/trade-in market. 

Obviously, this growing sector is a sign of our post-social times. Atrophying are the skills required to have a committed human love relationship. 

No, those were never easy.

In the tarot those obstacles are represented by The Lovers card. 


Notice right away that there's a disconnect. The curse of being separate kicks in at birth. To the left is the bad-guy snake, always up to stirring up trouble in relationships. The water, which symbolizes emotion, is turbulent. As the dramas of William Shakespeare hammer, the course of true love never runs smooth.

So, why even bother? 

In the 21st century, as The Atlantic documents, it's become acceptable to duck most social contexts. A statistic you should know is this: If you do happen to have real humans in your life with whom you are close, since 2003 you're spending 20 more months less a month than you had with them. The book describing that drift from social bonding - "Bowling Alone" - was published in 2000.

In addition to sex dolls, humans can fill up their lives of non-connection with work, anonymous social/professional networks, worrying, streaming and multiple addictions ranging from substances to fitness to traveling.

Since we learn most from clients, as a tarot reader I'm learning from clients that many have never been socialized for the give-and-take of personal relationships. Even lacking are the fundamentals of how to patch up an interpersonal blip. Instead there's blocking. 

Meanwhile, I observe toddlers in stores. They are totally self-centered, pulling off counters what they want, yelling loud and demanding their caretaker's full attention. Given current trends that little human being might never evolve into one capable of a loving, two-way, imperfect relationship.

Unfortunately, that deficit of socialization can spill over to how folks make a living. Most of that operates via relationships. Doing the tasks well is a defensive move. Embedding yourself into the social life of the organization is the critical strategy. 

You deserve success, deep connections and inner peace.

Let’s Remove what's blocking that with an Inspired Tarot Reading. 

Yes, You Can Ask One Free Question To Find Out More about my psychic Gift.

Jane Genova, 3rd Generation Psychic 203-468-8579, janEgenova374@gmail.com

 


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